Hello everyone, I am M44 and am in a wonderful secret relationship with an M21. We are overjoyed and talk to each other a lot. We are also not afraid to talk openly about our sexual preferences. My boyfriend has now told me that he would like to be "used" as a slave. Nothing extreme like being locked up in the bars or anything like that, but in such a way that I (the 44-year-old) have the say. Can you perhaps give me some good tips on how I can grow into this role and make my boyfriend happy? Maybe you also have suggestions for role-playing games or something. Thank you very much.
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So I would just buy some equipment and then just go for it. You talk openly, then be honest about whether you like it too much or not enough.
Hi where are you from would be interested
Hey, I'd advise you to take it slowly. it's best to use a traffic light system: green for everything, super orange for it's getting really uncomfortable, no longer arousing but still acceptable, and red for stop immediately. that way you can feel your way slowly. Ask your partner about his erotic ideas so that you know exactly what kind of dominance he wants. There is a difference between seeking physical dominance and pain and being aroused by verbal mental dominance. In either case, try to speak with a very definite tone so make a plan beforehand of what you want to do. whether it's simply ordering your partner to undress then kneel down so you can watch and touch your partner closely. if your partner touches you without permission put them in their place, verbally or physically depending on your preference. ETC Agreement and understanding is the be-all and end-all. I hope you enjoy trying it out. Playing for power can be really exciting. LG