Men who desire other men, want to have sex with them and/ or are in a committed relationship with a man are called gay. When people think of gay sex, they often think of the "classic": anal sex.
But: The world of gay love is much more imaginative than it may sometimes seem at first. The range of different positions and practices is colorful and varied.
Even many couples who have been together for a long time always love to experiment a little here. One thing is certain: In the world of gay sex, it certainly won't be boring. From flower sex to BDSM and other practices, just about everything is represented here.
Gay sex in the 1970s and 1980s
Gay sex was seen as a real danger, especially in the period of the 1970s and 1980s. At that time, in a time when there was more and more talk about a "mysterious gay disease" called "AIDS", many people were of the opinion that the virus would spread exclusively through gay men. Here a complete group of people was defamed.
It took a lot of education and commitment to fight back against these rumors. And yet, even today, many people see gay sex as "evil," "sin," and the like.
In many countries, men caught having gay sex even face the death penalty.
How often do gay men have sex?
This is a question that cannot be answered in a standardized way. Just as it is the case with heterosexual people, there are people who want to have more or less sex. Ideally, the demands of the two partners fit together here, of course.
This also applies with regard to positions, practices and co. One thing is certain: gay sex doesn't have to be "just" doggy or spooning. Accordingly, there is nothing against trying out a little and staying curious.
Gay sex and gay cruising
Gay cruising is much more than just a trend. The principle behind it is quite simple: men who (mostly) don't know each other yet meet at relevant locations for one-night stands. If you want a more protected setting, you can choose a place like a gay club or a gay sauna. But also parking lots and parks are popular places for gay sex.
Does gay sex hurt?
Surely just about every gay man who has had sex more than once has experienced in the past that it does not always feel pleasant to take the passive part. So that pleasure and passion do not fall by the wayside, a few tips will help.
For many men, among other things, one thing must not be missing during gay sex: The lubricant gel. In addition, various sex toys, such as plugs or similar, can also help to stretch the corresponding area a little and thus provide a more relaxed base.
Gay sex and condoms
Since the 1980s at the latest, both homosexual and heterosexual people have known how important it is to protect themselves during sex. After all, only the good memories should remain from a one-night stand or a similar adventure.
The carrying of condoms is therefore welcome at gay cruising. In relevant indoor locations, the operators themselves often ensure that no one has to put themselves in danger unnecessarily by providing rubbers free of charge.
The best thing I find is the open and large cruising offer. So the heten just do not dare to do that. Am by the way active sauna goer has anyone interested?
So sex between men is mega creative. Mostly both or all participants are very experimental. My experience is that you can really easily and openly address any fantasy. Most of these are then also simply tried.
Sex among men is simply awesome. Much more intense than sex with women. Men are simply the better lovers ^^